Let it be known, I have super, super sensitive nipples, to the point that I have to wear a bra if only to stop darn things getting excited by the friction of my t-shirt. It’s not that I need support from a bra – flatter chested women can get away with going without a over shoulder boulder holder (or over shoulder pebble holder, as I prefer to call them) – it’s just that without one, my nipples have a habit of poking through and threatening to gouge out the eyes of any unsuspecting patrons, which can be rather embarrassing. When it comes to nipple play then, understandably, I’m very nervous.
The first time I tried nipple clamps, I experienced a pair with a heavy steel chain. They pulled my sensitive nipples downwards in what can only be described as sheer burning agony. Undeterred, I bought another pair with silicone tips and placed them on by only the tips, which resulted in the same relentless mammary torture. Enough was enough, nipple clamps really, really weren’t for me.
For months, I was quite happy without nipple clamps in my life. They hurt, and I didn’t want or consent to that kind of burning pain. My nipples were extremely sensitive, and they deserved to be loved for their sensitive ways..
Maybe it was my inner masochist calling, or maybe it was my naturally inquisitive nature, but I had to know. I had to be really, really certain. I mean.. what if ones without a chain were better?
I tentatively opened Lovehoney and I had a look. Awestruck by their pretty acrylic butterflies and the fact that they are individual clamps which does away with the weight of the chain, I bought the Bad Kitty Butterfly nipple clamps. No going back now.
When they arrived, I held the box in my hand and studied them. I was excited, nervous and aroused, the same way any submissive would be at the thought of a new activity. I wanted to try them out before I mentioned them to my good Sir. I wanted to see if I could find what worked for me before he saw them, and then, if I did, I’d surprise him with them later. So, carefully, I unboxed them.
The first thing that struck me about these clamps is the weight. There is some weight, but not like the weight of a chain. The acrylic butterflies can still be felt, but they aren’t weighty as such. The second most noticeable thing is the black silicone tips, and the little silver adjusting ring.
This was it.
Holding my nipple gently between thumb and finger and the clamp in the other hand, once again, I applied the clamp only to the very tip. Once again, it resulted in intense pain.
Nope! Nope! Nope! Not even then!
Maybe if we just try further down a bit? Carefully, I slid the clamp further over my nipple so that it was surrounding it, rather than biting onto it.
Ooh la la!
Almost instantly, I felt a rush of intense sexual energy head due south and it took a fair amount of effort to stop myself reaching orgasm then and there. That was a new sensation, and definitely not one I’d experienced before!
I text Bill over at Rope & Roses about my new discovery. We have quite candid discussions about this kind of thing, so I knew he’d be able to help me.
Meant to go over the full nipple, came the reply.
No wonder I was hurting myself with them!
That night, my good Sir was most taken by my new purchase. Pinching one of my nipples gently between between the prongs of the clamp, I gasped.
“Fuck, Sir?” I breathed.
“Yes?” he asked.
“Can we review my rating on nipple clamps?” I whispered.
“Like… a billion out of a hundred!” I moaned, lost in pure, blissful sensation as he played with the pretty little butterfly.
I think that just about summarizes my thoughts on this product!
What are your thoughts on nipple clamps? Are you a fan? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.
Until next time,
Stay safe & have fun,
Helen & Matt xx