Helen takes part in the ’30 Days of Submission’ posts.
Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time he or she wants, part of your submission? Why or why not? Are there limits to this? My immediate reaction to this question was to laugh, because even if I identify as a submissive, that whole "being available anytime he or she wants"? Yeah, no, … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 13 – Sexual Submission
Do you include financial submission within the definition of your own submission and if yes, how does it manifest itself? If no, is there a particular reason why? Are you familiar with the concepts of financial submission? Do you have an opinion about financial submission in general? For us, financial submission happened more acceidentally than … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 12 – Financial Submission
Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission? How do you define service? What does it mean to you? If not, what is it about the concept of service that is not for you? The first time I saw service submission was on the film, Secretary. In the opening scene, … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 11 – Service Submission
BDSM -It's not necessary, but it's fun.
Rules make me feel safe, they make me feel cared for and protected. They also tell me how I can please, as a submissive.
Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not? Is spanking or corporal punishment part of my submission? Absolutely. Would we regard it as punishment? Absolutely not. I mentioned in my previous 30 Days Of Submission post that Mr Wolfie and I are flatly against punishment. For us, our dynamic … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission – Corporal Punishment
Do you accept and/or expect discipline or punishments as a part of your submission? How do you feel about it? Damn this question, because you know, honestly, it was something I wanted to talk about next week in a slightly different way. Alas, here I am. If you want the short version, then no, I … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 7 – Accepting Punishments
The shocking truth on how I came to be,
Have you been or are you in a dominant/submissive dynamic relationship or is this new to you? Have you been in more than one D/s relationship? How were they the same? How were they different? What is unique about your relationships in your mind? Goodness, I have such a mixed bag of experiences that I … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 5 – Counting & Comparing Relationships
Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you? Hmm.. you know the answer … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 4 – The Itch To Switch
