Helen takes part in the ’30 Days of Submission’ posts.
Has your submission evolved over time? If so, how has it evolved for you and if not (or if you are just starting out) how might you see or imagine it evolving in the future? This is such an interesting question and something that I think is so important to answer and explain for all … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 15 – My Evolution As A Submissive
Does religion have any bearing on your decision to submit? If not, are you familiar with religious based submission and do you view it as similar to other types of submission or dissimilar? This is an interesting question, because I think, at least in principle, religion has a lot to do with the foundations of … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 14 – Religious Conflict
Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time he or she wants, part of your submission? Why or why not? Are there limits to this? My immediate reaction to this question was to laugh, because even if I identify as a submissive, that whole "being available anytime he or she wants"? Yeah, no, … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 13 – Sexual Submission
Do you include financial submission within the definition of your own submission and if yes, how does it manifest itself? If no, is there a particular reason why? Are you familiar with the concepts of financial submission? Do you have an opinion about financial submission in general? For us, financial submission happened more acceidentally than … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 12 – Financial Submission
Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission? How do you define service? What does it mean to you? If not, what is it about the concept of service that is not for you? The first time I saw service submission was on the film, Secretary. In the opening scene, … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 11 – Service Submission
BDSM -It's not necessary, but it's fun.
Rules make me feel safe, they make me feel cared for and protected. They also tell me how I can please, as a submissive.
Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not? Is spanking or corporal punishment part of my submission? Absolutely. Would we regard it as punishment? Absolutely not. I mentioned in my previous 30 Days Of Submission post that Mr Wolfie and I are flatly against punishment. For us, our dynamic … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission – Corporal Punishment
Do you accept and/or expect discipline or punishments as a part of your submission? How do you feel about it? Damn this question, because you know, honestly, it was something I wanted to talk about next week in a slightly different way. Alas, here I am. If you want the short version, then no, I … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 7 – Accepting Punishments
The shocking truth on how I came to be,
