30 Days Of Submission: Day 13 – Sexual Submission

Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time he or she wants, part of your submission? Why or why not? Are there limits to this? My immediate reaction to this question was to laugh, because even if I identify as a submissive, that whole "being available anytime he or she wants"? Yeah, no, … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 13 – Sexual Submission

30 Days Of Submission: Day 12 – Financial Submission

Do you include financial submission within the definition of your own submission and if yes, how does it manifest itself? If no, is there a particular reason why? Are you familiar with the concepts of financial submission? Do you have an opinion about financial submission in general? For us, financial submission happened more acceidentally than … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 12 – Financial Submission

30 Days Of Submission – Corporal Punishment

Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not? Is spanking or corporal punishment part of my submission? Absolutely. Would we regard it as punishment? Absolutely not. I mentioned in my previous 30 Days Of Submission post that Mr Wolfie and I are flatly against punishment. For us, our dynamic … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission – Corporal Punishment

30 Days Of Submission: Day 5 – Counting & Comparing Relationships

Have you been or are you in a dominant/submissive dynamic relationship or is this new to you? Have you been in more than one D/s relationship? How were they the same? How were they different? What is unique about your relationships in your mind? Goodness, I have such a mixed bag of experiences that I … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 5 – Counting & Comparing Relationships

30 Days Of Submission: Day 4 – The Itch To Switch

Created with Crello for bigboldandbright.com, Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a β€œswitch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you? … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 4 – The Itch To Switch