What is spanking? By now, most people know what spanking is, but spanking falls as one activity under the umbrella term, impact play. Spanking can also take many forms, including clothed or unclothed, bent over or over-the-knee, and with a hand or with implements, like spanking paddles. Why might someone be into spanking? Spankers (people … Continue reading What’s Your Kink? Spanking
Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission? How do you define service? What does it mean to you? If not, what is it about the concept of service that is not for you? The first time I saw service submission was on the film, Secretary. In the opening scene, … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 11 – Service Submission
Good afternoon lovelies, Today, I wanted to break away from my normal pattern and talk about something that impacted me last Friday. Maybe it impacts you too, in fact, if you Google "anxiety before BDSM", you'll get hundreds of results on sites like Reddit and Quora. Anxiety before a BDSM scene is far from uncommon … Continue reading Why Do I Feel Anxious Before A BDSM Scene?
What is sensation play? Sensation play is exactly what it sounds like, it is the giving of sensations. Really, all sadists and masochists are into sensation play, but when we think of sadists and mashochists, we only think that they like to give or receive pain. This is false. Sadists enjoy inflicting and masochists enjoy … Continue reading What’s Your Kink? Sensation Play
I woke just after 9am to the sound of the water cascading in the distance. Damn him for disrupting my Saturday morning routine. I brewed myself some tea and sat down to my computer. Bleary-eyed, I powered up and set about my plans for the day, the pressures in the run up to Christmas are … Continue reading Raunchy Ramble: Positions
Hello lovelies! I'm back with chapter eight of this exciting collaboration with Penny Berry. Today, I am going to be sharing with you some of the ways (okay, most of the ways 😉 ) that D/s creeps into our love life, along with my top five favourite toys! Playing (Not So) Nice One of the … Continue reading Married To Master: Chapter Eight – Bringing D/s Into The Bedroom
What is sensory deprivation? Sensory deprivation is exactly what it sounds like on the packaging, it's the depriving of one (or more) of the senses. For most people on the lighter end of the scale, this might simply be a blindfold. On the heavier end of the scale though, this could include full head hoods … Continue reading What’s Your Kink? Sensory Deprivation
BDSM -It's not necessary, but it's fun.
Good evening lovelies, For today's post, Penny and I will be delving in and taking a look at some of the words and expressions used in our dynamics. It is important to understand that dynamics vary greatly, and not everyone chooses to use the same words. For Wolfie and I, we don't generally say or … Continue reading Married To Master – Chapter Seven: A Look At Language
A disabled kinkster talks about bondage, with some advice for other kinky folks with limitations.
