I arose this morning to a largely uneventful start. I woke up when my alarm sounded and I remembered to set the security system to "off" before I left the room. My day had largely been just like any other day, but with one minor detail: I didn't check up on Facebook. The difference in … Continue reading Letting Go Of The Lie: Why I Left Facebook Overnight
As the years roll by in the blogging community, something that often comes to my attention is blogging fatigue. That is, fatigue after years and years of writing, and still maybe (or not) getting very far. Different bloggers will have different frustrations and I've seen several people mention various grievances, from my good friend Bill, … Continue reading The Hidden Frustrations Of A Sex Blogger
I've always been a metaphorical thinker, and that is something that my husband has always loved about me. I draw comparisons and analogies out of thin air, and I compare ploughing through my task list like items on a conveyor belt with a big wheel with paddles, actively pushing my completed items behind me. On … Continue reading What Has Cake Got To Do With Kinky Sex?
I still remember it now. I'd sat down to my daily breakfast apple & cinnamon pancakes and a cup of tea when the email came in: Media interview. A media interview?! I'd never had a media interview before. I mean I'd done a guest post before, and a few social blogger interviews, but a media … Continue reading Guest Post: Why Bondage Frees People From Chronic Pain
Good evening lovelies, Just lately and in lockdown, I'd be lying if I said our dynamic hadn't gone on hold a bit, dramatically, it's gone on hold dramatically. I've lost count of how often the Google Home routine has set in on a Fruday, "hey Google, set bedlights to warm white" one of us will … Continue reading Setting Expectations In Your BDSM Relationship
Does religion have any bearing on your decision to submit? If not, are you familiar with religious based submission and do you view it as similar to other types of submission or dissimilar? This is an interesting question, because I think, at least in principle, religion has a lot to do with the foundations of … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 14 – Religious Conflict
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Why I don't like the Gorean subculture lifestyle., ss written by a trained "untrained" submissive.
You've seen it done, but how do you do it safely? Helen shares all she knows on this much-loved topic.
A true story. "I don't need to buy you a collar do I, Kitten?" he purrs, our eyes meet as he steps towards me and I smile. "No, Daddy" I reply. "Where is your collar?" "Remind me" I muse. I drop to my knees and sweep my hair out of the way, our eyes now … Continue reading Raunchy Ramble: Daddy’s Collar
