You've seen it done, but how do you do it safely? Helen shares all she knows on this much-loved topic.
A true story. "I don't need to buy you a collar do I, Kitten?" he purrs, our eyes meet as he steps towards me and I smile. "No, Daddy" I reply. "Where is your collar?" "Remind me" I muse. I drop to my knees and sweep my hair out of the way, our eyes now … Continue reading Raunchy Ramble: Daddy’s Collar
Good evening lovelies, For our ninth chapter of our Married to Master series, Penny Berry and I decided to interrogate interview our Dominant husbands and get their take on things. Are you ready? Then lets get stuck in. Background History: 1. Did you grow up in a home where traditional gender roles were present? If … Continue reading Married To Master: Chapter 9 – Dominant Spotlight Interview
Hello lovelies! I'm back with chapter eight of this exciting collaboration with Penny Berry. Today, I am going to be sharing with you some of the ways (okay, most of the ways 😉 ) that D/s creeps into our love life, along with my top five favourite toys! Playing (Not So) Nice One of the … Continue reading Married To Master: Chapter Eight – Bringing D/s Into The Bedroom
BDSM -It's not necessary, but it's fun.
Good evening lovelies, For today's post, Penny and I will be delving in and taking a look at some of the words and expressions used in our dynamics. It is important to understand that dynamics vary greatly, and not everyone chooses to use the same words. For Wolfie and I, we don't generally say or … Continue reading Married To Master – Chapter Seven: A Look At Language
The purpose of a ritual is to allow us to take ourselves from the present moment and into the mindset for play. Whether it's a simple movement or an elaborate performance, the ritual allows you bring your focus onto your BDSM dynamic.
Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not? Is spanking or corporal punishment part of my submission? Absolutely. Would we regard it as punishment? Absolutely not. I mentioned in my previous 30 Days Of Submission post that Mr Wolfie and I are flatly against punishment. For us, our dynamic … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission – Corporal Punishment
"Votes are here, love," I said, handing Wolfie his postal vote. We vote by post for convenience reasons. Him because he typically uses public transport to get to and from work which takes up more of that polling booth opening time, and me because those dreaded places seriously exacerbate my lifelong Generalized Anxiety Disorder. At … Continue reading Married To Master: Chapter 5- Submission & Feminism
Do you accept and/or expect discipline or punishments as a part of your submission? How do you feel about it? Damn this question, because you know, honestly, it was something I wanted to talk about next week in a slightly different way. Alas, here I am. If you want the short version, then no, I … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 7 – Accepting Punishments