You've seen it done, but how do you do it safely? Helen shares all she knows on this much-loved topic.
A true story. "I don't need to buy you a collar do I, Kitten?" he purrs, our eyes meet as he steps towards me and I smile. "No, Daddy" I reply. "Where is your collar?" "Remind me" I muse. I drop to my knees and sweep my hair out of the way, our eyes now … Continue reading Raunchy Ramble: Daddy’s Collar
Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time he or she wants, part of your submission? Why or why not? Are there limits to this? My immediate reaction to this question was to laugh, because even if I identify as a submissive, that whole "being available anytime he or she wants"? Yeah, no, … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 13 – Sexual Submission
Do you include financial submission within the definition of your own submission and if yes, how does it manifest itself? If no, is there a particular reason why? Are you familiar with the concepts of financial submission? Do you have an opinion about financial submission in general? For us, financial submission happened more acceidentally than … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 12 – Financial Submission
Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission? How do you define service? What does it mean to you? If not, what is it about the concept of service that is not for you? The first time I saw service submission was on the film, Secretary. In the opening scene, … Continue reading 30 Days Of Submission: Day 11 – Service Submission
Hello lovelies! I'm back with chapter eight of this exciting collaboration with Penny Berry. Today, I am going to be sharing with you some of the ways (okay, most of the ways 😉 ) that D/s creeps into our love life, along with my top five favourite toys! Playing (Not So) Nice One of the … Continue reading Married To Master: Chapter Eight – Bringing D/s Into The Bedroom
BDSM -It's not necessary, but it's fun.
Good evening lovelies, For today's post, Penny and I will be delving in and taking a look at some of the words and expressions used in our dynamics. It is important to understand that dynamics vary greatly, and not everyone chooses to use the same words. For Wolfie and I, we don't generally say or … Continue reading Married To Master – Chapter Seven: A Look At Language
The purpose of a ritual is to allow us to take ourselves from the present moment and into the mindset for play. Whether it's a simple movement or an elaborate performance, the ritual allows you bring your focus onto your BDSM dynamic.
Rules make me feel safe, they make me feel cared for and protected. They also tell me how I can please, as a submissive.